I feel completely manipulated by the way you handled this last weekend. I never even told you that I was able to do Saturday. I tried over and over again to get you on the phone Friday to talk to you and tell you how completely hypocritical you asking me to do Saturday was while every document your father sends says that we can't work things out on a job by job basis and there has to be a set schedule- to the point that I can't pick the girls up on a Saturday rather than Friday when I'm on over nights.
Beyond the hypocrisy and the assumption that I could and would drop everything to come get the girls you didn't even work out or think about Saturday night. Like, get a sitter or ask me what I want to do with Saturday night. No, I am not nor will I ever be comfortable with putting the girls to bed at your house. I am not a babysitter and that is not my home. You should have talked to me more bout the weekend, offered up a situation for Saturday night or offered to switch weekends with me. It's just so far from everything you have said in the divorce talks, it blows my mind.
Speaking of the divorce talks, it's crazy how long this is all taking. Why can't we sit down with a mediator and get this thing done? I don't think I've been unrealistic or unfair. Meanwhile, the lawyer fees keep adding up. It's been over a year since I asked your father if he wanted to write up the agreement. Why are you dragging this thing out?
I hope I haven't misled you in our exchanges, but you seem in denial of where we stand, we will not be getting back together. I am not your husband. Deal with me like a person and not someone who owes you. The way you treated me when we were together is the reason we are no longer together.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
