Not sure why my posts don't show up. I guess fr now I will just consider this more of a journal entry. H rented an apt on Friday and we told our girls on Saturday that he was moving out - very hard. He promised them that he would still be in their life. He stayed her Saturday night (he planned on moving out on tues) but was up and gone before we got up on Sunday morning. D(12) had a softball tournament, he kept texting that he would meet us there bt never showed up. I was planning on going to a football game Sunday night. He asked when I was leaving, I said around 4:30 he said he would be here at 5:30 and asked if the girls would be ok alone for a little while. I did leave a little after 4:30 and he texted at 5:00 hat he would be home shortly. But then Ds call me at 6:00 to tell me he was in a town a couple hours away and wouldn't be home for a while. They were scared and upset. I called H and he again told me he was only a little ways away. I call the house back and tell them they misunderstood and he would be there shortly, they say they are on the phone to him right then and he is telling them it will be at least 2 more hours. I call him again and he tells me that"he will handle it" but won't tell me exactly where he is. I hang up and call my neice to go over. Around 9:00 he texts me that "sorry I was running a bit late, I thought the girls would be ok for a couple of hours. But since you thought it was important to call in reinforcements, I'll stay at the apartment tonight." He has never acted like this before. And our girls have never stayed alone for more than about an hour, I believe he did that. Today he has called and come over to apologize to me and the girls, stating that he used poor judgement and it won't happen again. Brokenheart71
Brokenhesrt71 Me 40 (for a few more weeks) H 41 M 18 years Ds 12 and 8 BD #1 12/09 R 2/10 ILYBINILWY Sept/12 He moved out Oct/12