Barb I have read your post several times today. Great analogy. I still hurt. Today I felt desperate. I hurt every where. I still can't believe my family is gone. All I knew and worked and lived for. I know you know. I miss my D my dogs her room her toys I miss my ex. I miss her car in the driveway her cooking. It was all taken away in a second. My dreams and hopes and future. It's like what's next. Why keep at it. That's how I feel right now. Hope you guys don't get sick of my pity potty.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden