Confused at Where I am!

[KarenR]

It sounds like it might be the perfect time to work with a DB coach as there definitely seems like there is a crack in her armor! Your coach will help you plan the best strategy in how to approach and interact with her, that is most likely to get her to look at the situation and you differently. They are experts in these situations, and I know you will find it extremely beneficial and inspiring. I would look forward to talking to you. Take care.