sam, She is one confused puppy! As any parent would do, you should remind her in a very nice way to please turn lights off upon leaving a room and to pick up after herself. Don't do this for her. She's a grown adult and you've been kind enough to allow her to stay in the home during the storm. The least she could do is pick up after herself and turn the lights off.
Stay safe.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
