I agree w/GWN, your h is repeating himself over and over again like a broken record because he is desperately trying to convince you, but most importantly, himself that what he sees is the true storyline. Only you can determine if it's memorex or live.
If you happen to pick up the phone and he starts ranting, just say "I'm sorry you feel that way" and leave it at that. Keep in mind, you are in control of how much bs you want to hear from him. You can cut the conversation short at any time or go NC totally and not respond to his texts. If he should text you about you and the family after the storm, I'd let him know how you fared...but other than that...nc.
Don't beat yourself up over the drive by yesterday. We all do things that come back late and bite us. The most important thing is that we learn from those mistakes.
Live your life as if he may never return. It's important to make new friends and don't be shy or hesitant to ask friends and family to assist you. Today is a new day which means you can start anew.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
