Wife lost in the MLC-We are now separated

[sam4nh]

Well I'm probably more confused than I've been in a while....I remember the "Believe none of what she says and 50% of what she does." so I'm on guard.
W sent several texts over the last few days that completely messes with my mind...She will one minute say one thing and the next is something about her freedom and living in her new apartment.
1. That she had found a note that I wrote when she went to London and that it made her cry...I remember writing it, but I figured she had got it and just never said anything.
2. W went to her therapist who said she was being unfair to me by trying to get me to sign the agreement and not focusing on my family after the loss of my mom. - She said we could revisit the agreement later. This is such a relief since; I do not want to deal with this at this time.
3. W saying I love you and miss you--Hopefully this isn't confusing to you???
4. She tells me she is looking back over this entire time that we've been struggling and she believes that neither one of us have been in the position to give "everything" to solving the issues in our relationship. According to our(at the time joint but W refuses to attend together anymore) MC, I was the one who made changes and W kept saying she was trying, but never really changed any behaviors.
5. That she is sorry that she is having the issues at a time when she should be here for me.
6. She has made mistakes and somehow she must make it right—not sure if this can be done…I think what’s done is done.
7. That she knows she's confusing me, but she is confused---Yes she is…
8. Sorry because that I deserve for her to love me in a way a W is supposed to and needs to get her head on straight. Knows she doesn't have the right to ask me to wait but she has hope that if she gets her head on straight and realizes how to be the person I deserve that there still maybe a chance?
9. Didn't want to be alone during Hurricane Sandy and wants to stay at the house....Which she is...She comes in and acts like she never left. Doesn't pick up after herself, leaves lights on as she wanders through the house looking at any changes I’ve made, lots of comments on how I should do this versus that and feels free to accommodate herself. Yeah I know, I should have stuck to my boundary and asked her to stay at her place…I didn’t and I now understand why…I’m slow sometimes….LOL at myself.
I do have to say, when it came to going to bed last night, she did hint to sleep in the same bed. I said the bed upstairs was made and she could sleep there. She was not happy and stated she would sleep on the couch. I was okay with that too and I was not backing down on that boundry.