Of course mediation is making him angry. Things are not going how he wants and it is all everyone else's fault. If you would just go along with what he wants, which is obviously best, everything would be fine!
I know it's just about impossible, but try and keep some perspective with OW. She is a miserable, insecure woman with no self-esteem who doesn't think she is worth having a real man all to herself instead of someone else's cheating soon to be ex. Feel sorry for her, feel sorry for how far he has fallen, think they deserve each other (and know that they have a snowball's chance in hell), but do not blame yourself for either of their choices. And do not let their actions reflect upon you.
Just keep moving forward. The only person in this mess you have control over is you, and you deserve to make yourself into the best person and mom you can be.
Focus on you and the kids. You can do it!
He wants no contact, give him no contact. He needs to miss what he screwed up!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
