NLW-Keep moving forward. There is no other way. Whats done is done. And your kids, they really need you more than ever if your H has declared he won't contact them anymore. that is just ....awful.

Just forget him for awhile. A lot of emotions need to settle on all fronts. Because all of this right now is pure emotion working on all fronts. Your priority is your children...navigate them through this. For their emotional health.

You can do this NLW.

(((((((( ))))))))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home