I wouldn't. Not now anyways. I think it sends the wrong message after you telling your W you were living your life as a married man. She might not have believed you but at least she can't prove you lied and it got her thinking. This would send her off and I don't see why you'd want to do that at this point when you seem to be making some kind of progress.

Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then