Thanks everyone for chiming in. Nice to see you again Labug.
An added detail about the convo, is this. Soon after she said she broke up with OM, I told her that I hope it wasn't b/c of pressure from me. She did say partially, followed by the "I will file if it continues too long." Well duh!?! I can't let her have that much cake. And so yeah, as I said earlier, OM evidently was pressuring her to choose him, file for a D, and guess live happily everafter. He was most likely not taking the DB path. He probably was pressuring more, so thanks right?
During the brief convo yesterday, I did tell her near the end that if she wanted / needed to talk about anything that she knew where to find me. Can't say that she has taken me up on that yet. Hopefully she will be able to get good support from others.
I have been sympathetic to her physical complaints. Today she skipped coffee in leiu of a coke. Still feeling the effects of her hangover.
Mini journal / thought Today seems weird, knowing she has broken it off with OM. A good weurd, but weird. Maybe it's me keeping myself from getting too hopeful and / or allowing her to come right back. I don't know. This newness is weird. Then again, I never thought I'd be here, remember, "W and I are role models" for everyone else's R. A "jinxing" statement she made a week or two before the BD. Then again, maybe we truly can be. Show others to not give up, to work through the pain, and see what happens. At least I know I am (thankful for everyone's support here - cannot say that enough). Ending thought for now. I can remain being the great "fixer" that I am. I simply need to "fix" W by stepping back and allowing her to "fix" herself. By not doing so I have prevented her from doing good work for herself.
He probably was pressuring more, so thanks right? 