Ok so update on my situation. I did move her things into storage. I told her that I didn't want her to have to count on me being around to get her things since I was out and about and not home reliably. I told her that today. She was thankful and said that I didn't have to go through so much trouble. Later she sent me this email:


"I'm sorry (husband), I know that we are staying in touch until we get this all figured out and that you probably can not wait to stop having to deal with all of this....I just want to know that you're really okay. I'm sorry if it ever seems like i'm prying or being nosey or anything....you just don't ever reply when I ask about anything, but I realize that I guess i'm probably overstepping, but I really don't mean to be doing that. I understand that you'd rather not have anything to do with me at this point and that I should be respectful of that...I just wanted to apologize. None of this is easy, and I am so sorry for everything...you have to know and understand that please."

I feel like this is backfiring. The short responses and non-communication. I want nothing more than to tell her that I forgive her and I want her to come back. I want to move away and start over. This is an opportunity for me to respond in a couple of different ways. What should I say??? Any suggestions. Is this progress or is this just her way of moving on?


Me - 32
Wife - 31
No kids
Married - 3
Together - 6
"I need space" - July 2012
Bomb/Presence of OM - August 2012
Separation - September 2012