So this morning we have a good 45 minutes together before the kids wake up. Have some laughs and discuss general life and the news stories of the day etc. I made sure to not bring up any R conversation. Despite the ILYBINILWY confession at the weekend (and the fact she believes its too late to save 'us') I still dont think she is 100% comitted to us seperating. The logisitcs and not to mention the finances in itself is rather a sobering thought. I know she has seen my 180's - except she is telling me / herself that its good for the kids to see this 'new me'. I know it must be having an effect on her as well.
I also managed to get along with the ILYBINILWY that she felt we had been emotionally distant from each other for years and this was the end result. She mentioned that she hated that my 'down time' had become time on the PC.
She keeps insisting its too late but I think that she is currently trying to convince herself of that.
I left for work this mornin and she has already called me 3 times to talk about various things including how her mother was driving her crazy! I listened intently and validated her feelings without trying to offer adivce as I would have done in the past.
