I pretty much feel the same way. We had a very good marriage. Sure there were things we could have worked on, but great marriages are great because the spouses work at them, not because they give up and walk away at the first sign of discontent. We could have a great M if W was willing to work on it like I am, but for now she'd rather just give up.
Yeah mate. Well said. I'm looking at my friends and people I know who have much worse marriages than we ever had (and W agrees with that) but they are working things out and that makes them successful marriages, while our "great" marriage is at risk of becoming a failure, if W doesn't reconsider.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then