Kicking a$$ and taking names!

[Sweetbriar]

Snodderly...I hate to ask on this post, but dont know how else to reach out to ask you questions. I have read tons of your advice and I would love your advice on my sich, although im not sure if H is a WAS or MLC? My story is on Newcomers "crack in my perfect life".

My question after reading your recent response to this post is...if we give our H's time and space while they are having an affair, how do they have time to focus on theirselves and their issues? Especially if they dont think they have any issues. My H seems so caught up in the affair, he could care less about me, my kids and my unborn baby. I cannot imagine he is focusing on anything but OW right now???

I see you are in MD...I hope you are safe for the storm..raining and windy here in VA...