W initiated M talk Friday night. She said she wanted to read the ILYB book because she saw I was so content and since nothing had changed on her end she felt the book must have helped me.
Well the talk was okayg I didn't push her for any answers but we talked about feeling. I told her how I can't predict our future but I see a path worth trying. She then told me she is not as optimistic as I am but that she made a promise and she is not taking this lightly. She wants to explore every avenue and make sure we are making the right decision.
She really truly wanted to know what was on my mind. How I was able to stay so optimistic and calm. I didn't expect anything out of the conversation which lasted for about 90 minutes which was great because I didn't become a salesman more just described my feelings and my sense of direction to W.
Now next test will be to try and enact some of the excersises in ILYB and see if W joins in...
Patience....
Me - 30 W - 28 M 4 t 6 ILYBINILWY #1 Jan - 2011 Band-aid Jan 11' ILYBINILWY #2 7/28/12
