Glad I took off my earrings... I arrived late-ish and they had to set up a new row of chairs in the very small room so that i could sit. Guess where?
Directly behind OW.
I started badly, cause as i sat down, I lost control of my kicking foot. If i had to give an account, I'd say it was some sort of involuntary reflex. But her chair ended up shooting forward rather sharpishly. So stupid and childish, i know.. but kind of satisfying too.
I then sat politely through an hour's concert. OW's niece, who appears to have taken D16's place in my even soonertbx(now)'s life looks like a doppelgänger of my D16. This made my heart ache. He said he was going to attend the concert to see the niece perform, not D16. In the end he conceded to my argument that he should not go with OW, but she was still there.
At the end, when everyone was getting up and starting to chat, I am only slightly sorry to say that I leaned forward and told OW what a pitiful and disgusting individual she was. I also told her how much pain and suffering she had inflicted on so many people. Her mother was sitting next to her and heard what I was whispering.
We then walked out and left OW and her entourage there.
I did the wrong thing, DB-wise, but sometimes stuff gets too much.
I am pretty much over it all now - meaning any possibility of R with H is gone. But I think it had before hand anyway.
If all I have done is make OW think twice about coming to my kids' school functions, then I'm satisfied. She had the gall to wave happily to S13 as he waited to enter the concert room.
She is a disgusting individual and I feel some relief in having told her so.
