Tori, for the time being, I agree with you. I don't want to scare her away by being too forward and besides, I'm not sure I can trust my impressions. It might just be wishful thinking. Dr says that sometimes doing nothing is the best thing to do. I'll see what happens next.
As you said FY, we have had some good convos lately so there is no reasons to think that another one is not around the corner and if there is, she might open up more then.
What is your plan when this happens? What will you tell her? Will you still be afraid of scaring her away? Have you ever scared her away in the past by saying something, or have you always erred on the side of holding it in?
Even if you do scare her away, how long do you think it would be until you were back to where you are now? Next week? Never?
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
