My husband walked out on me one year ago.we would have been married 45years this year and have been together for 50. We are both 65.I found out 2years ago that he has A daughter from an affair he had. ( the daughter is now 18) we dealt with it 2 years ago when he told me and thought all was well.his daughter also just found out the same time as I did .he decided he wanted to be in her life now and so just decided to move out,no warning!we all live in the same small town. I just don't understand,I have accepted his daughter and told him she is welcome in our family .of course I did all the wrong things at the start but ever since I've been reading on this site I've been using these methods ,but to no avail.he stops to visit a lot but we never talk about R.I just don't get it,he says there is no one else.any suggestions?