Separation Helped So Far..

[anyhope]

Hello,
Long time no post which is good as I tend to carry on with life when all is going ok. And it has been for the most part. Things have not changed much as far as h is concerned. He proceeds to try and act as if nothing ever happened and has been calling me daily. One day I got fed up when he called and had nothing to say.. You know that silence on the phone you enjoy with your partner or a good friend even.. Well he's non of those to me so I just had enough and told him not to call me to 'breath' in the phone as we no longer have that relationship there's only so much I can put up with.
So then he got offended and I ended up texting him saying I was sorry but he's lost that place in my life and I'm not abut to have forced conversations with him daily that I don't feel comfortable with. He said they're not forced as far as he's concerned. (and then I thought of course not because it's not me who left you from one day to the next and moved in with someone else) :-/
Long story short.. Yesterday there was a Halloween party and all our friends usually go out together this year being no exception.
At this time last yr we were already a few months into the mess and he was already happy with ow. I just remembered today that last year at Halloween I listened to him tell people (while I was standing a few steps away from him) how he met a girl who is so intelligent and how glad he is he had met her.. Im not sure about the conversation before or after that as that was more than enough for me to turn around and leave that spot.
This year we went out and all was fun and games, had a good time.. Close to the end of the party this handsome knight with whom we exchanged a look came to talk to me. Within 2 minutes he was there telling the guy to get lost. Then I told him to get lost he had no business talking to him as I can talk to him if I want to. I felt bad for poor guy he clearly meant no trouble it was just strange so I had a fight with him about who exactly does he think he is.. He kept on saying that he's still my husband and I'm not to talk to guys when he's there. I told him if it bothers him he can leave but he pretty much said he'd punch out every guy who comes near me because he just won't watch that. I reminded him that over a year ago he told me he doesn't want me and I was already replaced with ow with whom he moved in its not my fault that his new 'love' didn't work out as planned nor will I be single forever because he decided that I am good enough after all.
Well point is words can't express how angry I was. He called me about 10 times today I ignored all his calls and have decided to ignore him altogether from now on. I might have to find new friends so I can hang out with whomever I want, possibly other men.. I mean I'm just not sure but it's pretty messed up.
And btw thanks for that book suggestion. My friends are leaving for a vacation in 2 weeks and I might just convince myself to go and just shut off for a week because I feel tired.