Keep-Going, I soooo appreciate your words. You have hit the nail on the head , BAM. I need to figure out WHY I felt he need to cheat, again. I have sought out a lot of counseling on this. I'm still working on it. I am currently in a self imposed celibacy run. No sex for 3 months now. That a RECORD for me! I love being married and I love being n a committed relationship, but it will never work if I keep derailing it by cheating. I have to figure out why I make the poor snap decision to cheat. I'm currently listening to a Alan Stanly DVD called "Guardrails."


Me: 49
Her: 33
S20 mos
I have S21 and D22 from previous M
Separated on 9/05/2012
No D papers filed