today was a hard day. after last night, wife decided to bring up all kinds of stuff today regarding logistics of separating and I got the ILYBINILWY line.
she got very upset though and kept apologizing. said she felt that there was now too much emotional distance between us and we can't recover.
I don't believe that is the case though! I am 100% sure I can turn this around with 180 ing etc. she has already noticed a lot of changes I can tell. she just thinks its too late as you said she would.
the good news is that she doesn't want to consider any kind of split until at least after Christmas. this gives me some good time to continue working.
I did make the mistake of getting visibly emotional today though. tried not too but it was so hard. learned my lesson today not to get involved in R conversations!
thanks for all the support. feels good to know there are like minded people out there.
