Funny, I often think my H has made his mind up and because of the man he is it's done. But then I remember he also appeared to have made up his mind when he married me! I wasn't holding a gun to his head, sure you weren't either hun. Revision of our history together really winds me up.
Yet, I get it, a year in and you need to do something for you. I'm not even 8 weeks into BD2 and exhausted already. Props to you for your stamina.
Enjoy your trick or treating, it's the little things that bring me joy. It's the little things we fight for. X