You did nothing wrong. I ask H to do things for me occasionally and he gives a look like he really does not want to but he does just to be "the good guy". My h still expects me to do favors for him and to not have any issues with it.

The gaslighting gets old, doesn't it? Once upon a time I would have done anything to save my marriage. Now I just want to save myself and my kids.


AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"