W let me lie in this am. When I got up she had done all the ironing and kitchen was spotless!!!!!! Shocked - she has not done any ironing for weeks.
S went with carer, W went out and I went to gym. W acting v secretive still and why do I think she has got a house but not telling me? She has apparently been helping friend move furniture (she has done this for last few weekends!)
Also saw what looked like a loan repayment schedule sticking out of her handbag! (No I was not looking thru her stuff). Wondering how she cld get a loan unless it was in my name!!!guess I will find out soon enough.
Another mutual friend (well husband of W friends) contacted me today and said W has been talking to his W and we shldnt meet anymore. Apparently his W has been saying he can't take sides!!!it annoyed me but I just said I wldnt want him to get into trouble with his W so no hard feelings and perhaps catch up when the dust settles a bit more. This is rly frustrating as W is systematically working thru our mutual friends like this. However, he is the 1st one to stop contact.
Wondered is this normal, anyone else experiencing this? W mum called today asking for W. sounded rly off with me on the phone (it was only a few weeks back that she contacted me asking what's going on cos W had been vague.
But other than all that I am trying to remain calm and upbeat. I have my own friends, family and life.
