Its funny how our kids can be so much more mature than our mlc'ers, huh?
Both the younger ones have had "talks" with W. The oldest, I am not sure, those two (S19 and W) have had an "interesting" dynamic since age 3 or so, plus he is the one who discovered the proof of her cyber/OMs/etc (that I don't think W knows still, I said that I discovered it to protect their R), so there is that discomfort.
Anyone, IMO, who goes more than 90-180 days after BD with a mlc'er cannot be a failure, you have done the hardest thing, especially when you figure in the "weirdness" from 2008 onwards...damn...you have had quite the journey and you are still intact, stronger than you know...sounds like "not-a-failure" to me...
I was learning some songs last night and this one made me think of you, your Mustang speeding on a desert road:
Quote:
Times Like These - Foo Fighters
I am a one way motorway I'm the one that drives away then follows you back home I am a street light shining I'm a wild light blinding bright burning off and on.
it's times like these you learn to live again it's times like these you give and give again it's times like these you learn to love again it's times like these time and time again
I am a new day rising I'm a brand new sky to hang the stars upon tonight I am a little divided do I stay or run away and leave it all behind?
it's times like these you learn to live again it's times like these you give and give again it's times like these you learn to love again it's times like these time and time again
Hang in there!
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
