On the flip side, it could be argued that if the more highly sexed partner loves their partner the way they want and stop demanding sex then they're more likely to get it...b/c now you're scratching your partners itchy elbow and they're going to be calmer and more likely to scratch your itch.
While that seems logical, in practice, it ends up being quite different. The person with the lower sex drive gets what they want; less pressure for sex AND less sex without giving something something of greater value in return to the person w/ the higher sex drive (unless the threat is w/o sex at some mutually acceptable there will be no relationship).
The tyranny of vastly different sex drives is that the one with the lower sex drive can make life miserable for the one with the higher drive. The trade off may be "I will make life less miserable for you. You won't get any more sex, but I won't make your life as miserable on other levels."
You'll have to weigh that.
The Captain
Last sex: 04/06/1997 Last attempt: 11/11/1997 W Issues "No Means No" Declaration: 11/11/1997 W chooses to terminate sex 05/1998 I gained 60, then lost 85 pounds. Start running again (marathons)
