I agree, you can do "fun things" with family and friends. My SO says that sex isn't everything in a relationship.....but she's furious she's been cheated on in the past. So right, it's "no big deal" until you bring up or actually do it with another woman.
The flip side I was talking about is just what I read in DR. Honestly, when me and my SO were first together and really good friends there was lots of sex. As I focused too much on sex she got turned off. Right now, forDB, I'm focusing on everything else just to try and save the R. Now, it I save the R I will start to work having sex again but I won't be "pushy" like I was before.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln
