JamesH don't do the R talk with her try to stay away from it as much as possible she is in a stage that she is confused and you are not in a strong confident position to have the conversation---you will though. I know this is hard but you have to detach....Try to redirect that energy somewhere else...start doing more with your kids...play with them more take them places..And this is hard and I slip time to time but try to be present with them
