Sorry, Lisa.7. ((())) It's hard to do 180's when the target keeps changing daily. Besides, some of those are things you can't/shouldn't do a 180 about.
He is right about one thing. You do deserve better.
I can't help you much with a WAS perspective on this one. I don't have any of those reasons and can't even justify them. His sounds more like a MLC than anything. Or at least that he is very immature.
I wonder how he would react if you suddenly started adding random men to your facebook account?