Isn't it something to watch? My H historically has NOT been one to say ILY. Especially to me the last few years, but even to our kids. Then the bomb. Then, next day, coming in the door from work its "I love you S19" "I love you D18".... while I sit in the same room, right next to these newly loved children... and without a glance at me he walks off.

The kids look at me with "What's wrong with Dad" on their faces...

Crazy stuff Wish.

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.