Firstly apologies for length of post in advance, think it'll be a big one. Synopsis of my situation, my H and I together 17 years, mostly happy so I thought. His Dad died in 2008 and he became increasingly distant emotionally. I confess I was a pretty rubbish wife during this time, as he got more distant I nagged and persued him.
BD1 and OW1 Nov 2011 False R from Dec 2011 until July 2012 when he gets distant again. BD2 Aug 2012 he's involved with OW1 and OW2 (old sexual liaison never a gf as such) He dumps OW1 and moves out early Sept 2012
Pretence of living at his Mums since moving out, but in fact with OW2 every spare second when not at work. He's planning hols, they've had romantic hotel breaks, days and nights out with her and her two kids. Seems he's doing all the stuff I longed for, and what we did at the start of our romance.
I've done the pleading, begging, reasoning stuff, I've been NC (as much as I can, we work together) for a few weeks now. It's given us space to breathe, I present myself as content with my life in his company. Also not asking for anything, and not giving up any information unless I really have to.
What is getting me down is that I'm not even sure it's MLC. Has anyone else experienced this total obsession with OW and moving in with them immediately? I know she is nothing really, but I just fail to see how I can compete when his focus is on her.
