Been served papers - first hearing two weeks away

[Soul.Searching]

I dont think its a matter of being with their time.
I think they are trying to detach too. I know everyone us different but for me, personally, I found I was already instinctively doing a lot of the DB techniques. The soul reason for that I think, is that it was the only way I knew how to protect myself.

I see my H's reaction after he sees me most of the time. Usually he calls/ messages me a lot more after the first few days of seeing me.
I'm sure at times that he is still trying, just as hard as me to detach.

For my H I'm sure that partying without responsibility and going away for "work" just has so much of a hold on him right now.

Though at times it seems I'm not worth his time, in reality I really don't think that is the case.