Thanks Wendy, i'll be keeping on eye on yours too.
Tori, how was the hike? The "dna" line was an autocorrect gone wrong. It was supposed to read, "gma called w a whore". We all agree she is white. I only have guesses as to what W meant by "catastrophic events". My hope is she meant that she is ending it with OM due to all the damage she has done to our immediate and extended family, friends, and of course myself. Then again, I had a similar hope a few weeks ago and yet still here if you know what I mean. So I'm doing my best not put much, if anything in that based on the crash I had shortly thereafter. This time I'm at least equipped not only with great support in this site, but now I have a shield.
On a side note, had a fairly good but chilly day with the kiddos at an outdoor bday party for another one of my friend's kids. I'm also 1/2 way through the DB book. I'm seeing more of how W's complaints were true in the sense that I did do too much and never made/ allowed her to do much (eg finances, bills, chores, etc), added with my insecurity = controlling and parental at times.
