WAS vs. LBS

[Soul.Searching]

See this is where I'm confused because if anything, it was the other way around!

Sorry, Lisa.7, that would be very confusing. However, if that's true, then you might actually be in a very good spot to get him back. WAS's in that case I believe tend to find the grass was greener at home. Of course, then it's you that gets to decide if you want him back.

I assume he's given you some reasons for his leaving. I'll have to jump to your thread and catch up with your sitch. It doesn't sound like your sitch came about very long ago.

Yes he gave me reason, reasons that changed almost daily. First there was no reason, then there was that he couldn't take the crap any longer. That he felt like a little school boy in trouble all the time.
Okay his 31 he should know himself If there are bills that need to be paid that week and things the kids need for school, then going to the pub or buying himself some new toy, should wait until everything is paid.
Another example: I don't think it is appropriate for him to post on his coworkers topless photo saying "Wow that's hot, I need more pics from that night."
If Me telling him I don't find that appropriate, is me treating him like a school boy then I'm guilty.
Then I got the ILYBIDKIILWY.
Then I got that I didn't wear dresses and do my nails.
Then I got that I deserve better.
Then I got that I didn't wear makeup often enough. I should wear it to work. Cos me wearing makeup to work affects him how?
Then I got that we both derserve better.
Then I got that he didn't know if he had made the right choice, wanted to try again.
Then he went to another state for work and started adding random chicks that live there to his Facebook and he completely ignored me, not wanting to try again.
He did tell me he loved me the other day while ending a phone conversation. I don't know if it slipped out or what but I was shocked, didn't say it back, was just wondering if he meant to say it.