I loved him enough that I wanted to know that I left no stone unturned in trying to save my marriage. I knew that for me I needed to feel that I did everything I could.
And I loved him enough to let him go to walk his path. I promised myself to do no harm. I also promised that I would do nothing to harm the relationship between him and our child.
I can see in you a person of substance. And you will know you are ready to no longer stand. You will not have a doubt in your mind.
Thanks for that. It resonated for me.
Could you sum up your sitch? Cause you're all mysterious
3 jobs? I can't even get 1!
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.