Maybe moving back in the house is becoming a better option now. At least you won't be paying the mortgage for a place where your W and her OM can meet so easily.

Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then