I just found the bomb of info...
W left her email open on the family computer.
1. Her crazy friend is helping her find apartments.
2. She received a poem from crazy friend about how everyone gets hurt sometime. It read as a poem about justifying her actions.
3. W forwarded this poem to suspected OM at her work.
4. W has a mirror picture of suspected OM wearing nothing but a towel, barely cover his junk.

I don't know what's to do with this info. She's planning to "get together with a bunch of coworkers at a bar" tomorrow. A big part of me is thinking about leaving her belongings in the yard for her to pickup when she gets home. Who knows where she'd take them.

OM is married and recently accepted a job half way across the county (or so W told me...)

She doesn't know I found this.


M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done