wishing, Your counselor has described the divorce process to a "T" w/the mlcer...it is one huge, drawn-out temper tantrum. You'll just have to stick to your guns and not given in if it means that you and your children will not receive the benefits that you should have.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
