Originally Posted By: Rick1963
I don't know 25. I have talked to my D and says she is ok.

You are allowed to ask again, in a gentle AND OR funny way, maybe pretend you are excessively worried or that you "read it in a parenting magazine or 'Freaky Friday" the movie. But don't assume 1)she's just like her mom and 2) that it's healthy!



She is very much like her mother not very expressive. I have gotten phone calls from the school and discussed it with her. But no calls in last two weeks. I know she talks to the guidance counselor and I have asked for up dates. I will do my best. Our R is pretty much the same.


ever thought of just the two of YOU going to counselling? Yes your d and you?

My h had a lot of repair work to do with our kids b/c although WE were reconciled, you can't just assume the kids are alright with everything. I thought it helped but more importantly THEY did. Just a thought.

I know you have a lot on your plate for now and she'll need to time to adjust to even know "where" she is emotionally.


On another front ex is loading up her stuff. I offered to help she declined. It is pretty strange and I can't leave cause I'm waiting for a delivery. Weird times.


Good luck. There is a light at the end of the tunnel and the tunnel ain't that long anymore!


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change