Howdy.

First thread begins here
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2293527&page=1

My last comment of that thread is below

Hey Agnes and TJP,

thanks for stopping by! I just visited your threads as well.

TJP I hope you are still in as good a "place" as your last post indicated.

Agnes, I hear you on the "looking forward" comment. Lol. I have found H's absence to be a mixed bag, some things are easier, some things more difficult.

Still no contact, but I know he has checked his email (I didn't send him anything but because I can "check" his email, I know he has read his current messages) so I presume he's still alive. His eta is tomorrow before football. We will see, I'm still not betting on that.

Planning on a "tidy up" day for today. Looking forward to having a more orderly surrounding, perhaps it will rub off on my brain! I'm thinking bubble bath tonight... haven't had one in I-don't-know-how-long. Hoping I hear Monday that I got the job I interviewed for on Wed, that would be SUCH A GIFT for the GAL effort!

The kids are busy this weekend with work. Had a sweet moment this morning when I dropped S16 off for his job at McD's - he ran across the parking lot to hold the door for an elderly lady smile smile


Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.