I was curious if anyone had issues with their children that really required you to work with your Xspouses on things?
It just seems that my girls have always got something going on that really require both parents working together to help them.
D9 struggling with homework, major attatchment to me, and having tantrums.
D13 still bed wetting, and now I do believe either very forgetful or lying about stff. She has this big knack to turn things around and switch her stories about stuff more often and then turn right around and tell me she told me these things.
Either Im getting early onset dementia from the stress or someone is b.sing me. I think it's the latter.
So I once again have to contact XH about a few things. She told me her dad gets her up 2 times a night so she won't wet the bed in the past. Then she just told me this morning he wakes her up every two hours and she told me this before. XH has not said a thing to me so I will contact him to clarify some stuff.
The girls also haven't been telling me that XH wants to have them packed up and ready for their 2 nights the morning he picks them up for school. So when he comes to get them, they're not ready like they should be.
At any rate it's obvious he and I need to really communicate amongst ourselves to keep all of this organized.
But it's still SO HARD for me to do that. I'ts like after we've text about this, I just feel emotionally exhausted. I feel that way because we used to always get along quite well in regards to the kids. So it's nice to have that back. But then it's like a nightmare and insult to injury after all that's happened.
If I had my way I would never speak to him again nor ever set eyes on him. Do you ever get used to this? Do the X's every stop annoying you? Maybe it's me and my all or nothing thinking. If we're done we're done. I resent the fact that for the best interest of the children we have to have some sort of semi parenting relationship. I resent the hell out of it!!!
I know Im being inmature. But damn it anyway. It just feels like I need to contact him for something all the time anymore because of the kids. If we don't get on the same page about this bedwetting issue she'll never grow out of it. If we don't get on the same page about the homework and tantrums, there's trouble there too.
