it's just some more insanity...but at least you've seen it before at work (AND at home)
hang in there and don't forget to reach out to your d. Since we can assume she'll visit you at leat now and then (--- once she sees what your wife is going to live in, your d may rush home. Don't be shocked if that happens)
so ask her if she cares if you paint her room and if so, what color (or repaint it same color if it simply needs refreshing and she likes it). The point is to remind her that it's her home and she can have input into how her part looks.
Really, I would almost expect your d to join you at the house at some point this year. Be ready.
You say you "don't interrogate" your d anymore. Any other changes or improvements in the r with her?
I can't help but think this is way more traumatic on her than we are mentioning or seeing.
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