She's going to try to push you as far as you can. Do not give in to it!

Listen, back in July my H wrote me an email saying "Our marriage is over, period. Let me know when you can accept that."

Now things are 100% better because I stood my ground and just LOVED him. We still have a very long way to go, but at least he's not throwing the D word around.

Do NOT talk about your R, do NOT talk about your past. Focus on the "new you" and what changes you are going to make starting today. Someone on here said "be the change you want to see." If you can do that, you'll have a shot. But living in the past is not productive. Treat your M like it's a brand new relationship, with a brand new you.

Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page