I had a good day today and even ended with W contacting me for the first time since Tuesday. Two weeks ago my W began texting and calling almost every day. The phone calls have changed from short business talks to more casual info about what is going on in our lives. I think the DBing is working. I didn't respond to W last few texts because they weren't question oriented. I let them go. I received a text tonight:
W: Not Talking? ME: Been busy what's up? W: You didn't answer my question ME: I am always here if you want to talk. W: What? W: Did you show S the pic I sent you last night? ME: Yes S saw it last night, he also says he saw you on TV, LOL
Five minutes later she calls and talks about the game and other stuff. During the 20 minute conversation she asked what we were doing for dinner but I didn't take the bait. We talked for a bit after the conversation and I told her I was going to have to letter go but would have S call later.
During my S's conversation he said to W OK we'll see you tomorrow. And her response was Oh are you guys going to stop over tomorrow (sounding happy) and I then reminded S we would see her Sunday. I got the impression she hoped we would stop over tomorrow.
I am not sure if she went to the event with OM after all. During our conversation she stated that her co-worker that she went with's S said he saw her on TV. The way she has been acting, I wonder if the fantasy life with OM has taken a turn.
I am not going to get my hopes up I have read to many on here get their hopes up only to be smacked by a 2x4 and sent back a few steps. I am however going to document positive baby steps that make me believe DBing is working.
I would love to hear what everyone else thinks about the turn of events tonight?
H: 35 W: 37 S: 7 T: 10 M: 8 OM: Apr. 29 2012 PA: Aug. 31 2012 DWord: July 29 2012 DWord on hold since Sept. 23 2012 DB'n Since October 8 2012
