Thanks Nina, I'm glad to hear it's not just me! I feel like the girl in high school who's boyfriend wants to dump her but she doesn't get the hint, or something. It's so bizarre to me.
I think saying nothing as you say is the best course to take. I know this truck thing is gonna come up again, but I'm really not up for being manipulated about it either. I still think I have a lot of work to do on myself, but it doesn't mean he can guilt trip me either. I'm sure I'm going to make some mistakes, but honestly I'm doing the best that I can do. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't angry about what he's doing. Of course it doesn't feel fair. But I guess no one promised us fair! And aside from my character defects, I've been a very good wife to him. I hope that you're situation gets better also. It's not easy, but maybe we'll be better people at the end of it, right?
