I'm right there with you Bestgal. I feel like our spouses are just looking for this kind of trigger. No matter how well you thought you were doing and how much effort you put in to this before. They choose to ignore, or at least they act like they don't notice or care. One trigger, then they make up their minds and think we are no good! It really seems to me too that whatever I say set him off. I'm not saying anything to him, I don't think he cares either right now. Maybe you can just wait a bit, not saying much, see what he brings up?
