No, we haven't set any ground rules as far as the kids go. This is the first time anything of the sort has come up. The children are one of my main concerns that I wanted to talk with a C about.
About the damned comment...She was upset that I was going to take her, when I asked if that was something important for her to do, she gave me the money comment. I am reminded of something Sandi2 told me awhile back, and that is to slow down a bit, and think before I act or speak. So it is another fine line to walk as far not caring what she thinks, but still be considerate of how she might take something.
As far as the transition to me, I think I am ready to really detach and stop reacting. Ready to start acting on my own behalf. Like I said I am on the edge of this. Trying to make the perverbial leap. I know that I still have a lot of work to do. That is why I am still somewhat all over the place with my posts. Everyday I see things a little clearer. Each day brings me closer to that leap.
I have been thinking about a future without my wife, what it would look like. I am trying to put our old r out to pasture. As you probably well know it is not easy, but nescessary to do, to be able to start over.
Me 37/W 32 S 5 D 4 ILYBNILWY 5/12 Sep 8/12 Starting to find myself 11/12 on
