I probably have come across controlling when I say I want him to save, etc. But I've been trying hard not to get into anything with him this past week. Just let him do what he needs to do.
We were going to a MC (today was supposed to be a session, but I cancelled it when he stopped speaking and said he was leaving).
I don't know how to communicate well, I can see that. Everything I say just seems to set him off. But he says he's moving out and he's not angry. He is! He's seemed angry and withdrawn the entire week. If you're not angry, why are you angry? haha. Yes it could've been more civil, you're right. I just want to assert myself without arguing, and the truck is a prime example. I don't want to be controlling about it, but I feel like why should I make this easy for him?
