Thank you to all of you. Excellent advice as always. Ironic that you feel so alone while going through this. Yet you are all out there ready to help and I have never have seen or met any of you.
Sandi2 I like your picture of dropping the rope. I have no choice but to let the rope go and walk away strong. I will not let her pull me down. This is her choice to walk away from our family.
Yes I will be there when she breaks our boys hearts. Then I will be the strong father who picks them up to recover. Fun times ahead.